I too have survived Complex Trauma Adaption that looks identical to BPD as an adult scapegoat child of an untreated, dysfunctional, narcissistic biological unit. Today, I am proud to live with a unique purpose: helping others in their recovery journey. This includes fostering self-compassion, internal peace, self-confidence, and stable friendships. I have achieved this without medication for over 5 years now but this by no means is a suggestion that you may not benefit from the same. You can remain open to holistic approaches while benefiting from mainstream treatment if that’s your calling & need. Healing is not linear, and I continue to do inner work each day.

Looking back, the last few years of deep healing and progressive changes seem unbelievable but are indeed divine. Recovery is more than possible for all survivors of Complex trauma oriented BPD, not just women. My work is currently dedicated to women, aligning with my experiential learning as a wounded healer, particularly in the context of a woman’s bodily and spiritual experiences.